Ways to be Happy and build long lasting Relationship

“In the hand of life its not important to hold all the good relations. But its more important how good u behave with the relation which you hold”

If we compare any relationship between today and twenty years ago, Dating and Marriage has created a huge difference. In our society today if we notice there are more than 50% of marriages, which are unsuccessful. Reasons might be quite a few. What seems scary is “commitment” made by each other. If we notice in any relationship if one has to face challenges, people just give up. Dating nowadays has more of become a marathon race, just trying to date as many people as u can, instead of trying to know someone deeply, taking time to know each other. For the couples that are married, divorce is not at all unfair, for whether it has been for thirty years or just eight months, results in the same outcome.
Dating or marriages are hard relationships and that’s the fact. It is not necessary that all things should always go perfect; there are some occurrences of fights as well. There needs to be a 100%commitment from both sides for a relation to succeed. When one breaks off a relationship, there is a feeling of missing something. There was a kind of “spark” before which has left one of both people felt inadequate, lonely and unfulfilled.
There are many such relationships which are definitely possible and has proved their success even though they are not so good, healthy or long lasting. There are few examples like Newman and Joanne Woodard, Rhea Perlman and Danny devito or Ronald Ragan and Nancy. What’s their secret? Answer is very simple; they work hard for their relationship. They made decision to love their mates rather than depending on the “fuzzy” kind of feelings, which can be fade easily. By making a decision to love, you will always stick to it even in bad times.

Let us take an example of purchasing a house, you check out the place, surrounding, the rooms, the broadness, the width, immence facilities and features that you think would be best for you and your family. After staying there for a couple of months you realize that perhaps you would have purchased a big house, or that may have kitchen on the left, or there is no ventilation, or on hot sunny days there would have been sunroof which can give proper shadow. However, it is too late now so you choose to keep the house and make it work. It is same for marriage as well. Not everything would be perfect, there will be many obstacles around which you have to overcome but you have made the decision and now you choose to work with the same.

There are thousands of things, which you can refer for the betterment of your relationship. In order to get into a right direction, we have some tips to build and strengthen your relationship.

Remember, a big success needs very little steps, which has to be taken every day.